Dear friends,
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Louella and her cat Sabrina
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The Walk to End Alzheimer's is Saturday October 13th. For those of you who have already contributed to the Walk to End Alzheimer's campaign, I really do appreciate it. Thank you.
There is only a few days left until the end of the campaign. Would you please join me in the
battle to combat Alzheimer’s by making a contribution? A contribution of any size will be appreciated. $5 or $10 will help and I will be grateful.
If you will click on
this link, it will take you to my donation
page. Once on that page, just put in the amount you want to contribute
and then it takes you to another page where you can submit your credit card
information. This is a secure site administered by the Alzheimer
Association. After submitting your donation you will receive a confirmation
message.
If you are more comfortable
paying by check, make the check out to Alzheimer’s Association and
mail it to me and I will turn it in. My address is Rod
Williams, 758 Roycroft Pl.
Nashville, TN. 37203.
Alzheimer's is not a normal part of
aging. Alzheimer's disease is a progressive brain disorder that damages and
eventually destroys brain cells, leading to loss of memory, thinking and
other brain functions. Alzheimer's usually develops slowly and gradually
gets worse as more brain cells wither and die. Ultimately, Alzheimer's is
fatal, and currently, there is no cure. Unless a cure is found, you or one
you love may develop this disease. Currently, more than 5 million Americans
have Alzheimer's and that number is expected to grow to as many as 16
million by 2050. Our future is at risk unless we can find a way to change
the course of this disease.
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Louella, her brother Ben and
sister Linda. Florida,
May 2012
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This fight against Alzheimer's is very personal with me. As you know, my life has been touched by
this disease. My wife and the love of my life suffers from it. It is
too late to find a cure to help Louella. I have to accept that, but we may
find a cure to save many others.
Louella has been diagnosed with
the illness for eight years, but probably had it at least two years prior,
maybe more. These last eight years have not been terrible. We have tried to
not let her illness define our life and have tried to have as normal a life
as possible. We still went on a couple nice European
vacations after she was diagnosed and we went on two vacations to Florida to
visit Louella’s sister. We continued an active social
life of civic involvement and spending time with family and leisure
activity. We still go to the art crawls and sometimes
party on lower Broadway.
I have been blessed in that
Louella is not one of the Alzheimer’s patients who is angry, disagreeable,
disruptive, or wanting to fight. Louella could not be
sweeter. She does not tend to “wander.” And Louella is
happy as can be. She is content picking “flowers” in the
yard. Actually she picks bouquets of weeds or foliage, but she is particular
about which ones she is picking. Picking flowers makes her really happy. She
also is content playing with her bling. She will put on earrings and
necklaces and attach earrings to her clothing. She can play in her jewelry
for hours. She has a lot of things that interest her. And, we have a cat
that Louella is just crazy about.
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Louella, Sue Deuss, Rod, and Councilman Walter Hunt
at MLK event, Jan. 2012
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Actually Louella is a delight.
She gets excited at seeing butterflies fluttering around our zinnias in the
front yard. She takes great delight in watching children. She gets excited
at birds and if she sees a “bunny,” which we have a lot of in our
neighborhood, she gets real excited. She likes a lot of television,
especially America’s Funnies Home videos. Louella still loves to dance and
to go places. Louella could not be happier.
We have been blessed by having a
great caregiver for Louella. Sue Deuss really loves
Louella and could not be more gentle and sweet to her. She takes Louella
places and takes good care of her. Sue has become like part of our family.
Unfortunately, Louella’s children
have totally abandoned her. They never call and never see
her. After discovering they were stealing her money and after a long,
lengthy legal battle, Louella’s remaining funds were placed in a
conservatorship last year. We have heard nothing from
either of her children since then. Luckily Louella is unaware.
She lives in the here and now and worries about nothing.
Unfortunately, in the last year
Louella has had a major decline. She can no longer read at all. She could
not read with understanding for a long time, but now she cannot read any
words. Also, she talks less. She still
can understand when you talk to her, but she makes conversation a lot less
and cannot find the words to express herself when she does try to talk. The
worst is that she has lost control of her bodily functions. This makes it
more difficult to go places and makes daily life less pleasant, but it is
just part of it.
Despite this further decline,
Louella is still graceful, feminine, delicate, and charming. She still loves
to get dressed up nice. She still enjoys life. She has the same mannerisms
and she is still engaged and aware of what is going on around her. She is
still Louella.
On October 13 We will be walking
a mile and a half in
Centennial
Park. If you are in Nashville, Please join me. Sign-in
is at 8:00 AM and the walk begins at 9AM. To join the
Rod and Louella
Team" in the
walk to end Alzheimer click on this link and then click “join
team.” If you fail to register for the walk and want to
join us at the last minute, just show up.
Over the years, your words of
encouragement, prayers and concern have been greatly appreciated. The
support I have had from family and friends means so much.
"Rod and Louella
Team.
God Bless you,
Rod
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